So hard to find you....

It took me like 3 mins to figure out how to post again, now that is sad...but I have had soo much on my mind. I finished my papers today finally! Thank U God, I still haven't felt the feelings of relieve but I know it is there. I also freed myself of this weave today just to let my hair breathe and put it back in 48hrs later. I need to learn to be comfortable with me and my body. I watched the MTV's I Hate My Plastic Surgery and felt bad for the ladies until they prayed and got corrected surgeries and everything was fine and then they wanted to get more. One lady's health was put into jeopardy and after having her breast implants removed and being able to give a full breath, she wanted to get more surgery on her breasts. I just shoke my head, I couldn't believe it. She would put her health at risk for beauty perfection, I almost threw the remote. Anyway, I had a great afternoon, my head was feeling weird, I just wanted to be alone I couldn't bare picking up the phone and call anyone. I hope the feeling passes, but it feels good. Having a relax day feels like nothing in the world. I accomplished all my task for today except running....I got to stop being lazy, I'm a former athlete LOL those days are long gone huh? Well I just pray God continues to motivate me because he knows my heart and him only.....

My Venting Corner,

Meghan Renee B. (via Shoppy)

Coming to an End....

Its been over 4 months since I've posted. I haven't forgotten about the blog, its just been a lot to get my thoughts together. I figured no better time than to do this at 3am on a Tuesday morning. Finished a final yesterday morning, had a nice chill session and some dinner and margaritas....that might explain why I'm still up. A lot has been on my mind, a lot I have been pondering. People that have stayed on my mind all weekend and people who remain on my mind as I type now. I have never really wanted alone time as I do now. Just time to relax, clear my mind, get comfortable, have nothing attached, and just breathe. Just be calm and collected. Just to not be rushed and quick to have to make moves. Just to sit back in my bed with my computer or maybe not and just think.....think about what I say, who, why, just think about life. It is often said that we live to eventually die. But life is so valuable that we should live to live and live every moment. A friend in high school use to tell me that life is so short that it only represents the (-) on the gravestone. I was shocked but could understand. My opinion differed though. The life I live are memories for other people memories for people who will remain here long after I leave. I am here for photos to be put on the computer, in scrapbooks, on walls. Life is on abundance and I never doubt that. Life is what I can write down and sell a book about. It is about my biography and my perspective on life. My perspective is rich from my parents perspective and their parents perspective. I have not done this all by myself. There are influences pushing and pulling all around me everyday. My biggest fear is worrying too much. Putting too much of my heart out there to worry and worry and worry about someone I truly and deeply care about. It is that type of care that is untouchable, intangible, unimaginative. It is undescribable but it is a feeling, an overwelming feeling. A confidential feeling. It teaches me patience and tempers me. It takes my loud mouth and makes it silent. It makes me think before I speak. I makes me ponder the value of what I have and how keep that contained within me makes it even more valuable. It can't be taken away unless I give it away. It was not given to me by someone it was given by God and I took advantage of the opportunity. I failed to just sit around and wait for it to come to me. I reached out for it and made it work out for me and incorporate itself in the plan and purpose that was given to me. It makes me free stream of consciousness flow stronger and together. It drives me, motivates me....its my passion!

Happy New Year 2010

This is a new year of new life, new experiences, new mistakes, new surprises...... So what type of mentality should we have. I believe we should not change much from the past in 2009. It should be the same - open mindness - nothing like that should change. The future is unexpected and many things come along with it. There will be new love, new hope, and new passions. I just needed to say that, not much, but as the semester continues there will be more. The key word of 2010 is FOCUS!!! Focus on those things that you care about, those things that you don't want to take for granted, and those things enrich your life. Peace,

Elmo

The New Excitements in Life

Its amazing how we are down until something new and exciting enters into our lives. Why so? Why can't we just be content with all the fortunate things we already have in life. We are alive, good health, not living on the streets, and being productive citizens in the world. It is good to be excited and happy that hard work pays off, but where does it end? When can we just adjust the new found thing with the greatest that has already occurred in life. Ironically, the same goes for when we are disappointed. Everyone has their season and when we are going through a rough time we should be assured that some good will come in the end, no matter how far that might be, days, weeks, or even years. The older we get, the more new excitements intrigue us. The more reigns we have on life, the better deserving of these new excitements we believe should come our way. Why not? Whats the problem? I believe not much, but it's about how we handle it and our reaction from it. Do we believe that we are better than others who didn't receive the same thing? Do we let our pride take over or do we take it as if we are fortunate to have this excitement similar to what we have received in the past. So, when those exciting things come in your life, do embrace them, but put it in perspective and plan accordingly.

Today is the 1st day of the Best Day of Your Life!!!

Spitting knowlege again (rapper side thanks to susielou)

I love this gospel song, it speaks wonder. It brings the joy and heart out of you through all the pain and grief you may be suffering. It gets off the mind the trivial matters and things that you can't change and pulls to the forefront the things that you have power to change and are innate. The outside world will not change as much, but you can change your attitude at anytime. Being in control of this is a powerful move and allows you to seek and search more of yourself and who you are. The song puts away all the troubles and fears we have now and what we think the future may hold. So, I will follow the lead of this great songwriter and say TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE!!!!!